You’re only human. You don’t have to have it together every minute of every day. – Anne Hathaway
Can I ask you something? How was your day today? Was it the good one or more likely the bad one when you felt like everybody around you is smiling and you just sit there with your thoughts and be like how they can be so happy every single day?
Firstly, thank you for your answer and let me tell you something: that’s okay. It’s okay to feel that way sometimes. You know, not to be happy every day 24 hours in a week. Actually, in my opinion, it’s not even possible and healthy for us feeling like this the whole time.
Let me explain all these messy thoughts I wrote here…
I DO believe that positive mind = positive vibes = positive life. I DO believe that how we think, affects how we live our life and how we treat with ourself, BUT I also believe that to be happy, we have to face bad times too to enjoy happy times. I always read some kind of tutorials that teach/show me how to be happy every day and I am always like okay I will read this one but it’s because I am curious. But to be honest, I am not sure if we are even able to stay positive and happy every single day.
It is not just about the positive mind
As I said, I think that as a human it is not possible to be happy every day but it is not like I spend my whole day by crying or frowning, it is just natural when your day doesn’t look like anyone else’s happy day. Just because your friend is smiling today doesn’t mean that this has to be your best day in your life. You have the right to feel sh*tty and stay in your bubble for a little while.
As a human, we were given to have a few emotions but it was not just the laugh but also the cry or the anger – the man of many faces and moods and we were meant to use them. And this is why I think it’s okay not to be okay.
But even when I feel this way – when no one or nothing makes me happy, I remember to be grateful for what I have and what I have achieved. Being grateful doesn’t mean to be sentimental (at least for me) but be aware of my strengths.
What makes you happy? And do you think that It’s okay not to be okay’? Let me know your opinion!
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